Hi guys I'm new to this and have never spoken to anyone about this so be kind! Been with my Hubby for 9 yrs married for nearly 3 love him with all my heart and he says he loves me..... But our sex life is absolutely rubbish we haven't had sex for 12 mths and it's driving me insane I've tried to talk to him about it but it always comes out wrong and sounds like I'm having a go and so he just shuts the conversation dead. It's destroying me inside. He's a heavy cannabis smoker which is part of the reason ( l think?) why he can't be bothered. He seems to prefer diy to porn than go near me which I don't think he does often but chooses that over doing anything with me. I'm not hideous I get plenty of attention from other men (which I could careless about). He's not gay I've seen the stuff he's watched and it's all woman. He's has said on the rare occasion that I need to be more sexy! And I need to make the first move. But very difficult wen u don't have any self confidence left and he's got his back tome in bed. I don't want to leave I just want to sort this out. I find it so embarrassing and humiliating!! And makes me so angry. HELP!!
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