Please don't flame me.... But I got involved with a unavailable man a few months ago!
I fell head over heels for him and he says he feels exactly the same and will leave his GF yet his actions don't really match his words!
Just kind of feeling like I'm a hook up and nothing else and seriously doubting that he will ever leave, I seem to really only hear from him when he wants to get together and where as he used to come to mine for the night it's now all conducted from the hotel room where he stays during the week for work.
I know I have to end it, I know I deserve more and his GF certainly does, but I'm sad, I'm scared and secretly hoping it will kick him into action and make him so what he says he will because I'm not allowing him to have his cake and eat it.
I honestly have never never felt like this about anyone before, but I hate the way I feel like a teenager constantly chasing him.
This is going to be one of the hardest things I have ever had to do, but now I don't know when to do it, if I contact him asking to see him then I'm chasing him..... Which I'm really trying to avoid doing or do I wait it out until he contacts me to meet and do it then?
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Have to walk away from this man
Walkingalonelady · 25/11/2015 17:36
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