I've been abused all my life. Abusive childhood followed by long abusive marriage & several abusive dates, so you could say my judgement is way off with blokes. Now I've met a new man (OLD) & it's very sad but my first thought is ' in which way is this one going to let me down? ' So far he's been an absolute gent. Won't take a penny from me on dates. Pays for dinner/ theatre/ black cab home (which he doesn't join me in) He's always super polite. Says things like 'Blah blah blah - in my opinion' - acknowledging you may have a different viewpoint. It's all delightful but I'm left wondering when the 'hit' is going to happen & what form it will take? I almost feel I'm being groomed. Absolutely nothing untoward has happened so far & he's been very complimentary about me. Have I hit the jackpot finally or is the hit just around the corner? If he's that bloody nice how come he's never married/no kids by 46?
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