Probably it's not a big problem bit I really feel sad after my husband told me that he don't want me to go at the event that he is organising. I'm in maternity leave and my baby is now 3 months and w moved recently out from london in a small town with not a lot to do, so my and my little jj we are always here at home alone while my husband is going to work and train (he is a dancer and youth worker).He is now organising an event where I helped him, starting from creating the flyer, all the advertisement and much more.yesterday he told me that is better if I'm not coming at the event. I can't understand why
Is he nervous about it being successful? I still think you should be invited , maybe reassure him that you will fine and he won't need to worry about you .You understand that his priorities will be making the event a success. Can you offer to do something to help ? a small task help serve drinks maybe or take toys and help entertain other people's children.
Thanks for your replies He is the organiser of the dance auditions event...so I guess is a social event...I just wanted to be tgere and support him and help him just in case he needs it...and it's happened already in the past.
I wanted to leave jj with my sis in law,and yesterday I asked him...what you think if we leaving jj with your sis?so I can help you better and he replied...well probably is better if you staying home...my heart just collapsed in that moment. I don't know if I need to just go...I don't want to be like I'm forcing something
OP, I think it's very odd that an event that you helped organise is being forbidden to you by your husband. You are an adult and can do as you please so I think you should go the event because it might be quite revealing.
I can understand where he's coming from. When I am anxious about something I have to do, I much prefer to fly solo. It's not that I don't love my friends or partner, its more that I need to focus on my own behaviour and interactions without worrying about someone else being there....