Wrote a number of therapeutic emails tonight. Deleted them. Thankfully.
Then after a bottle of wine wrote one last nasty one liner and hit 'send'. Bollocks.
It was deserved [I think]. Cat now among the pigeons. But Bollocks Anyway.
It was to my SiL. She has had loads off my mum, including holidays, money for the house, money for the children. All fair and above board, no more than waa given to me..... plus her engagement ring. My mum's engagement ring from my dad. Fair enough, thinks I, at the time.
For context, my brother got my dad's signet ring when he died, gifted by my mum, not left in the will. Again, Fair Enough.
My SiL is an only child so will get 100% from her mum when the time comes [irrelevant I know...].
My brother (my only sibling. Her husband) told me a while ago while we were sorting out my mum's house that his wife wanted to 'pick through' my mums jewellery. This was while my mum was losing her battle with dementia and didn't know which way was up. My mum is still alive. My brother has taken possession of the jewellery box.
I have never been given any valuable jewellery or any other special tokens from my mum or my dad and its too late now. I will never experience the 'this is for you..' moment.
For info, my mum is now in a care home near both our houses, my SiL rarely visits, and I've been given a lot of shit about my mum from her.
My email asked my SiL if it was true she had asked to 'pick through' my mums stuff.
I'm a bitch.
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Bollocks. Pressing 'send'.
Imbroglio · 16/11/2015 22:53
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