What do you do about birthdays and Christmas cards/presents for ex h when there are dcs?? For the last two years my ex has bought a card and presents for me, as if we are still together he doesn't mean well and isn't being nice - I left him for good reason, he was a bully and emotionally and physically abusive. I have previously bought a card for the dcs to write but this year I don't feel inclined to, I know that sounds mean but he isn't part of my life anymore, my mum takes dcs out to choose a card for my birthday. Am I being mean? The dcs aren't bothered - I think he has moaned at them suggesting they have forgotten his birthday, but it's not worried them. Any advice appreciated please :)
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