Going through very messy separation. I have 3 children aged 8,7 and 10. Husband didn't want to leave, I said I was fed up with controlling behaviour about money and cleaning combined with having feelings for somebody I work with.
He's now moving out on Monday but things have gone crazy. He has called the police saying I hit him. I did lash out in an argument but only touched his head. This was after a scuffle with a mobile phone in which he grabbed my wrists. It happened in front of my daughter. Yesterday I spent an hour talking to social services who say that I am a victim of emotional abuse. I am frightened about the future as I can't see happiness. I am worried about having 3 very hyper children, working full time and being in an area where I know hardly anyone. My alternative is to stay with husband but we continually argue and I can't really get over the fact that he reported me to the police.
Any advice?
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mrsrabbitsays · 12/11/2015 07:18
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