We have been married 17 years, I have been unhappy for a lot of that time. H has manual job so comes home with dust , sweat etc all over, I have asked him repeatedly to have a shower every day but he doesn't. He tends to come in fall asleep on the nice sofa. He also never brushes his teeth, I have just replaced mine and kids toothbrushes because worn, his looks brand new. Rarely has a shave. He's like a teenager, likes come home and go on his games etc. I'm usually in bed hours before him.
The thought of kissing him turns my stomach. We haven't had sex for over a year. If we had a spare bed I would sleep in it .
He never compliments me or gives me any attention other than to moan about me buying anything for myself.
An old friend who I've not seen for years thought we were separated .as on his face book page there are pics of him and the kids but not a single photo or mention of me .
Thank you for reading this and any thoughts appreciated as I feel I've lost all perspective on this. ??
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Blueskytoday · 10/11/2015 08:20
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