..I don't think that the sex me and OH have is the best he's ever had. I think the odds are stacked against me really, he's 41 and had quite a few more partners than me.
I'm different in that I don't tend to remember one night stands, only sex I've had with long term partners, and I can't really remember the moments properly or any details specifically.
Think it stems from a while ago when oh mentioned a sexual experience he had with a stranger in a public place. I assumed this was his "best ever" experience, given that he'd told me about it, and it made me feel a bit well, jealous, insecure almost.. But recently I mentioned it in a jokey way, and he said it wasn't a great experience after all. Didn't know what to believe!
I've never had a thrilling or risky experience like that.. So maybe I feel a bit left out.
So, are you the best your current oh has ever had? Do you know you are? Is he yours? If you're not, how does it make you feel? Are you accepting that you may not be, or does it hurt a bit..? I suppose my oh is the "one" and I want to feel like I'm the best to him.. But perhaps I'm being childish :-/ got to stay away from those romantic movies....!
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"The best sex you've ever had" - is it with your OH?
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