Hi, I've a few threads about my situation - different variances but essentially the same introduction. Been seperated from my DH for 12 weeks after 24 years of marriage. We hadn't been getting on very well for a couple of years and yep, he left me for a woman at work and moved straight in with her three children (all under 10). Myself and DD (8) are doing OK really under the circumstances. She hasn't gone there and nor will she for a while as I don't believe the time is yet right.
It's just every time I start to feel better, I turn a corner and wham! Another hurdle. Everyone gets involved and thats perhaps my fault as I talk too much and react. This morning he had a real go at our daughter and then told me that I need to sort her manners out! Also, I've found out that he's changing his car for a much bigger one to transport all the children. Just silly things but they really hurt. And I still feel so much "hold" from him, that I can't handle him being angry/annoyed etc with me. I can't stop churning around all the lies that must have happened over the Summer and how stupid I was - I couldn't sleep last night as I just going over it. I want to be angry but its almost like I can't be because I'm so worried about how he'll view me. How do I get over him choosing her over me and being so happy?! Shallow and prehistoric but I find it so hard.
This is only the beginning isnt it? We haven't even started talking about selling the house yet. I'm so confused and my head hurts.
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wobblywingbatgirl · 09/11/2015 11:51
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