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What do I do?

(6 Posts)
Chucklecheeks Sun 08-Nov-15 20:36:12

After 25 yeas together and 14 of marriage DH admitted an affair today and left. I'm relieved as I really wasn't loosing my mind as I thought. I need to sort out the practicalities, we are married and have a joint mortgage.

I want to stay in the house, by my mind is blank about what I need to do

TooSassy Sun 08-Nov-15 20:38:14

Oh OP.

Any DC's involved? Do you have anyone in RL who can come over and support?

PreemptiveSalvageEngineer Sun 08-Nov-15 20:38:17

Chumplady is your friend

So sorry you're going through this.

Chucklecheeks Sun 08-Nov-15 20:51:41

We have a nearly five year one and an eight year old. I don't want anyone to come over. I feel like I need to be on my own. I have told my family that e have slit and my parents and brother know why. I don't want anyone else too know yet.

Chucklecheeks Sun 08-Nov-15 20:53:49

Sorry that meant to say I have told my extended family but only told the full story to parents and brother.

PreemptiveSalvageEngineer Sun 08-Nov-15 21:22:32

Lawyer up. Because you know he's going to.

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