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pinktips Sun 01-Nov-15 23:33:34

Earlier today partner and I were trying to work something out and involved a lot of googling on his phone. He handed it over to me on a couple of occasions and on one occasion as I was typing a search term, a recent search for "adult works" came up. Thought it was an odd term but forgot until just now. Google it and it is an online escort database searchable by area! What the frig do I do??? He is going away for work for the week in a few hours, don't think I can hold it that long!! Anyone still up and any words of wisdom??

notapizzaeater Sun 01-Nov-15 23:36:06

Have yiu chance to swipe his phone before he goes ?

pinktips Sun 01-Nov-15 23:39:08

I don't know the pin. He handed it to me unlocked. I'm not normally a snooper and didn't think twice at the time so i suspect it is still on there, as didn't raise suspicion. So if I confront him and ask to look again I expect it to pop up.

Tapirs Sun 01-Nov-15 23:40:28

Is it something he'd have to register for? Can you find out if he's registered?

pinktips Sun 01-Nov-15 23:41:50

Not sure, I'll look now, but from my brief look at the site I don't think you do.

WillCrossThatBridge Sun 01-Nov-15 23:42:12

Since he was not protective of his phone, I'd go "emm, why were you searching for adult works on Google?" and watch his response.
Watch out for over-defensiveness!

pinktips Sun 01-Nov-15 23:44:23

He can but I've no way of searching for him if he is a member.

pinktips Sun 01-Nov-15 23:45:45

That's what i thought willcrossthatbridge.

pinktips Mon 02-Nov-15 01:46:03

Confronted him calmly and he said a contractor on a site had mentioned that the site exists, he said he couldn't believe it, so searched for it. Finding the concept of it a bit far fetched apparently. But true enough it exists. He said I could go through his history and he openly offered it up. There was the search engine history and one page (the website front page) and that was it. So it all tallies! Am calm and rational and canhand on hheart say I believe him, no niggles or suspicious behaviour/vibes. Thanks for the lightening reactions ladies at such a late time!

WillCrossThatBridge Mon 02-Nov-15 01:48:58

Glad to hear it, PinkTips - all sounds plausible.

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