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Would you have a night of steamy hot passionate sex if you knew your dh/dp would never find out?

(176 Posts)
SurferJet Wed 28-Oct-15 09:32:24

& they'd be no repercussions whatsoever.

CuttedUpPear Wed 28-Oct-15 09:34:09

I would know.

expatinscotland Wed 28-Oct-15 09:34:19


SurlyCue Wed 28-Oct-15 09:36:45


You either agree to be faithful or you dont. You dont agree to be faithful except if DH wont find out.

Is hot sex really that much more valuable than your marriage and the respect you have for your partner?

PollyParrotsCrackers Wed 28-Oct-15 09:37:36


Kim82 Wed 28-Oct-15 09:40:48

No. I couldn't live with myself afterwards. I also have no desire to sleep with anybody else.

elQuintoConyo Wed 28-Oct-15 09:41:09

No. I have morals. And I'd feel dirty and sick until the day I died.

If DH did this to me and I found out, it'd kill me. The other way round, too.

As an aside, we may be old farts and together for 17 years, but we still have hot steamy sex, thank you very much!

SocksRock Wed 28-Oct-15 09:43:47


As an aside, if I had a chance to spend a whole night in a bed with none of my family around, I'd be deep in blissful sleep, not screwing someone else.

fuzzywuzzy Wed 28-Oct-15 09:44:02


What's the point of being with DP if I value him (and myself) so little?

happystory Wed 28-Oct-15 09:44:29

Absolutely not

Every1KnowsJeffTheJerkOlantern Wed 28-Oct-15 09:44:41

God, no.

AtSea1979 Wed 28-Oct-15 09:45:38


Esmeismyhero Wed 28-Oct-15 09:47:07

No unless it was with a dreamy new species male (lauranndohner) and then they imprinted on me and I'd run away and have amazing sex forever and dh would be my best friend and understand because, you know, I needed the new species.

InvasionOfTheBodyShatners Wed 28-Oct-15 09:47:43

No. It doesn't appeal at all.

SugarDiabetes Wed 28-Oct-15 09:48:27


Cheesybaps Wed 28-Oct-15 09:48:29

Never, I couldn't live with myself.

Branleuse Wed 28-Oct-15 09:48:39

no, we agreed to monogamy and it isnt difficult.

SugarDiabetes Wed 28-Oct-15 09:48:56

Would you, OP?

LuluJakey1 Wed 28-Oct-15 09:49:05

No but I would like one with DH. Our 10 month old has other ideas at the moment. smile and we never get a whole night to ourselves when we are not tired.

SurferJet Wed 28-Oct-15 09:49:34

Honest answer.

I don't know.

SueGeneris Wed 28-Oct-15 09:50:48

No way. I don't get why anyone would do that.

It would destroy me if he did it to me and I wouldn't want to do it with anyone else. That's why I married him!

Houseofmirth66 Wed 28-Oct-15 09:51:02

Yes. If there were an absolute guarantee that no-one would find out. And yes I know that I would know - but I reckon I could deal with it.

SueGeneris Wed 28-Oct-15 09:51:55

LuLu snap!!

NoArmaniNoPunani Wed 28-Oct-15 09:52:27

He'd be the one having it with me.

Joysmum Wed 28-Oct-15 09:53:15

I can't see as how my DH wouldn't know as I'd have to wake him up to get it grin

I had a number of partners before my DH and none have been better than him so no need to look elsewhere and I'm not a complete cunt

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