Desperately need some advice. I have no one to talk to about this...... I have been married for 12 years and I am 37 years old. My husband is decent and trustworthy and kind. My feelings for him are just friendship and appreciation to him for being there when I needed someone to care about me. I don't feel the way I should for a husband. There is no passion in our relationship, he doesn't 'get' me and we have no real connection. He on the other hand thinks everything is fine or at least won't acknowledge otherwise. I know if I left him he would be devastated and I would never forgive myself.
I have been travelling on business a lot recently with a married male colleague. We hit it off immediately and over the past few months have developed a real connection. Nothing has happened and I am not sure he feels the same way but I am head over heels. He seems quite flirtatious but I am not sure what the signs are to look out for. He always sits close to me and maintains eye contact until I feel like my heart will burst. He tells me he is looking forward to seeing me again next week. I am obsessing over him and cannot get him out of my mind going over and over every detail of the conversations we have had for signs he feels the same way.
Please no judgement, just need helpful advice on what to do- ignoring these feelings seems impossible.
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