Such a long story, I'm going to keep it as brief as possible though as I really need help.
Narcissistic mother in law, father in law her enabler, have always controlled, manipulated and have no boundaries. Dp has spent years desperately trying to please them, desperate for the parents he longed for he thought if he did as they wished and always agreed they'd be "normal". Fast forward 3 years and they've had regular access to dd (almost 3) and she does get on well with her grandparents, however dp and I have has a HUGE bust up with his parents, I basically spoke up for the first time ever to them and told them I'm fed up of their manipulation and control and sick of watching them bully do. Resulted in fil saying he's always hated me and basically saying I am crazy and to "watch out".
Dp now wants nothing to do with them, basically he's been waiting for a proper excuse to cut ties (trust me there's been so many times we could've done this) and I KNOW that they will apply to the courts for access to dd.
I know they'd never physically harm her, but I've watched them manipulate their own son and watched how it's affected him. I am so worried they'll do the same to dd when she no longer conforms to what they want her to be, in all honesty you can't say 1 negative word to mil without her crying all day and fil going ape because you've upset her. I feel sick. And I'm rambling...genuinely thinking of moving very far away.
We were thinking about having another child next year, now I can't even consider it, they'll end up with unsupervised access to another child at God knows what age. What do I do?
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Chamonix1 · 27/10/2015 08:36
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