Tearing my hair out a bit with new man. We've only been seeing each other a few weeks but I feel like he's not that keen on me.
I assumed I was being blown off after our first date but he was very shocked I'd interpreted that as he says he thought it was fantastic. We're on 5th date now and after each one I feel like I am being blown off but I'm not.
It's hard to put my finger on why I feel this way but it's the vibe you get when you feel someone doesn't really like you. For example he's hard to pin down for plans. He doesn't phone me. Doesn't give me much information. It's just like a subtle vibe of disinterest.
However if I let him know I'm feeling that vibe he can't understand what I'm talking about and he says he's really liking me a lot.
I'm tearing my hair out because I want to believe eat he is saying but he just acts uninterested!
I know he has a very busy life and job and home situation whereas I have a bit more time of my hands and I also know when we are together I very much feel like he is dead keen. ..he stares at me a lot, kisses a lot, touches a lot, doesn't want to leave or end the date, is kind and wants to talk but when we are not physically in the same room it feels a hit like pulling teeth.
He's a sweet guy...should I just take his word for it ?
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He says he is keen but doesn't act like it!??
GlasgowGirl12 · 26/10/2015 23:39
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