This is such an old story, wise ones will be rolling their eyes. I met a man who says he is not looking for a relationship. I believe him, won't attempt to change his mind. There is a connection, compatibility and a chemistry there. We have met up twice and he's texting, and we're arranging to meet up a third time. I haven't communicated to him in the same direct fashion however that I would never have casual sex with somebody who wasn't at interested in the possibility of the relationship working out. I would do that, I'm not afraid to say that, it seems a little premature to say it when he's not tried to kiss me, hug me, nor sent any flirty texts. Should I clarify that I'm not going to sleep with him or would that be so inappropriate when he hasn't said anything flirtatious or done anything physical. But friends move slower than this I suspect. This doesn't feel like ''friends''. I think he's really interesting and attractive and I would have a relationship with him if he wanted one. So.... I should be careful I guess. He sounds like he has lots of friends.
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he doesn't want a relationship, next move? should I say that I don't want casual sex
F0xChat · 19/10/2015 12:52
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