So thank you mumsnet - I thought I was going crazy wanting to have sex with my H after an 8 year dry spell (my doing) after finding out about his affair.
Our current thinking is that We want to see if we can make the relationship work or not. A joint journey of working it out as a couple and also as individuals with counselling and hard work.
But do I act on my desire - I understand the theory behind hysterical bonding and think it totally explains the reawakens of my desire to sleep with him, to touch him, to be hugged by him etc etc.
But can it be useful to not act on it or should I with open eyes let nature do its thing and go with the flow.
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Hysterical bonding - do I go with it or resist
InShockWhatToDo · 11/10/2015 07:39
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