I stood on a street tonight after leaving early from a very nice evening with friends wondering why my DH finds the only way to socialise is to get pissed.
He doesn't drink often. I'm not worried about a drink problem, however, when he does drink he drinks so he can't speak, gets angry and is a complete twat.
We, actually I, have stopped accepting invitations because he just can't hold his drink. But the crap thing is he doesn't see any problem.
In normal life he's fine, reasonable, mature but I'm embarrassed every time he drinks. We're 40 not kids.
I really just feel flat about ever going out again, he will tell me it's my issue tomorrow and I really don't know if it is.
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patterkiller · 10/10/2015 22:06
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