Hi ! This is my first post, I am hoping for some unbiaised opinion on an issue I am having with my husband. We live in the Netherlands with our ( almost ) 2 year old son, and our parents live in the UK and Portugal.
I have always been very close to my mum and Dad, and am lucky that there are often cheap flights so we can pop over to visit them, or them us, quite regularly.
My husband's parents are older, and have still got kids at home + money issues, so they rarely get to come see us, unless we pay for their flights.
My husband gets very upset when we see my family more than his. I mean, properly upset, as in he wants me to ask them not to come so as not to upset his family. I feel that is unfair as it is neither my parent's fault, or mine, or our son's that my inlaws to get to see us too often. Whenever they decide to come overfrom Portugal I am always the one booking flights for them etc.
My mother has just sent me an email saying she would like to come for a quick visit in a month or so, and my husband is upset as that would mean my mother sees her grandchild more than his mother does.
What is your opinion/experience with this situation ? I would like to hear what you think, and know how to handle this best.It upsets me , a lot .
Thanks :)
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kebee · 28/09/2015 12:52
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