A few years ago in my mid 30's I have a pretty big health scare and almost died,luckly I recovered from it but which left me with chronic problems with my health which are intermittent but disabling. At the time I stopped working and was on ESA for a time. My husband and I decided that I would not return to work as my health wasn't good enough but that instead I would start a part time at home busines which I did and we also decided not to have children.
All has went well for the first few years but recently as we get closer to 40 and people progress with their careers and have children I feel very much on a different page to my friends. I am happy with things as they are and don't feel I am missing out except on seeing them. One friend my oldest and dearest friend kept putting me off for weeks and weeks and when we finally did meet up she confessed that she found it harder to talk to me, that I couldn't understand her difficulties and the stress she had with her job and baby, she said I lived in a bubble and didn't understand real life. I was really hurt but I think she is under a lot of stress. I notice it with other friends to they are getting squeezed so hard at work and have so much on their plate and I don't think my life quite computes to them. I see it with DH to not that he minds but that work is really taking it out of him so that even those in good health are being worn down.
I just think business expects blood out of people and it is damaging relationships all round, or perhaps I do live in a bubble what do you think?
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Stress of life ruining relationships or do I just not get "real life"
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simonellie · 11/09/2015 18:25
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