well im a long time lurker and LOVE this site so hopefully i can get some of your great advice too
i live up north and the rest of my family down south i moved away years ago to be with an ex and only normally go 'home' a few times a yr ive retained a few mates down there especially my 1st love my boyfriend from when i was 16....im 32 now.
we lost contact for years till a couple of yrs ago but now meet up everytime i go down and text inbetween
it started off as lets meet up for a 'mates' drink n a catch up then progressed to nice meals out then a couple of months ago i went down and spent the night in a hotel with him
it all sounds a bit sordid but really not....hes the nicest guy ive ever met and im not sure anyone even my ex husband has ever compared...
so my dilemma is im going down next week, we text all the time and have planned to meet up in some way when im down there
the texts are getting less 'matey' and i can feel myself falling for him again but keep stopping short of saying how i really feel as im scared to loose him totally! although i did send a meg drunk saying ive always loved him and always will the other week, then panicked the next morning n text saying sorry for drunken msg! he replied do i mean its not true?
someone tell me what to do pls!!!
hes such a gent and my friend thinks hes waiting for me to make the 1st move but i dont know...
i dont want to ruin anything but the content of his texts plus the way he acted the night we spent in the hotel makes me feel theres more to it
do u spend your life wondering what if or just play it safe and keep a good friend?
any advice greatfuly recieved
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should i take the risk?
isitjustadream · 14/08/2015 23:34
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