Firstly, I have NC'd as I don't want to be outed. I promise I'm not a bored teenager either.
About 9 years ago I worked in the same office as a guy and we quickly became friends. We both had partners so nothing happened. I moved jobs but we all stayed friends.
Our personal lives have changed and I've been single for a couple of years. We still speak and I still saw my friend and his partner monthly. She started to not turn up but my friend still did. She knew about it but was just busy or didn't fancy it.
They have split up about a year ago and we have been getting closer. Nothing dodgy but we've became like best friends.
Drunkenly he admitted he likes me and really misses sex and intimacy. I do fancy him and miss the sex so said he should come over when I'm child free next week.
Now I'm just kind of freaking out about the whole thing. I mean I've had a child and I look a lot better with clothes on. The teenage part of me is super excited though and even just thinking about it happening makes me smile. Neither of us want a relationship but a fuck buddy with someone we can trust.
I've no idea what he's expecting. Do you just go with the flow or talk it all through before. I'm just a weird mixture of nerves and excitement. Is it usual for them to stay the night? He's suggesting all sorts of positions and it's been so long I'm just not sure how it's going to work.
He's very laid back , open and I completely trust him so I might just be overthinking this all.
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FuckBuddyHelp · 14/08/2015 11:27
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