Hi there
My ex partner recently issued an occupation order against me to get me removed from the family home and the children. I ended our relationship due to his DV towards me and he brought this claim as I called the police when he raised his fist to punch me (he didn't make contact), this was in front of our 6 year old twin daughters. He tried to say I was telling him to hit me, which isn't true. He withdrew the order in court, on advice of his solicitor, however we were advised to go to mediation to try and resolve our problems, we both agreed.
We attended mediation last week and he was very irate and aggressive, not only towards me but to the mediator as well. She even had to remove me from the room as I think she feared for my safety.
My question is, as the mediator hasn't replied to me yet, is the mediator able to write in the report about his aggressive behaviour? Or just she purely have to stick to what was discussed. Obviously I need to be able to explain to the court why it is impossible for me to discuss anything with him amicably as he has anger issues and I fear for what he might do.
Thank you
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kelly31275 · 12/08/2015 15:25
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