hi , maybe posting on here will help , or maybe someone knows what i feel like ?
Im newly estranged from my sister and mother . I spent my whole childhood in fear of mothers temper and being told i was no good , not wanted , along with physical abuse . the emotional abuse was worse . it left me very angry and fighting back as a teenager and finally suicidal until counselling saved me and now i am a happy mother of two children with a supportive, successful relationship and a good career. but i have walked away from my sister because i cannot cope with her passive aggressive behaviour and my mum siding with her . i have many friends and accessed more counselling that has agreed that walking away would be the best thing to do ........ but today i watched a friend walking with her new partner ( she went through a very messy divorce) and thought that when a relationship comes to an end a new partner may come along ........ but nobody replaces a mum or sister ....... im in the position of seeing happy extended families everywhere and realising that I haven't got that. I also have an 8 year old who will know at some point that she isnt seeing her cousins...... can anyone relate and offer me some kind words or understanding of how to manage this. thankyou
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meandyouplustwo · 11/08/2015 16:41
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