My P snores, really loudly. He will not go to the doctor about this and basically thinks that it is my problem. Also, more annoyingly, he asks me to go to bed with him at 10.30pm, which I have told him repeatedly is too early for me. And then I lie there listening to him snoring, getting more and more cross. If I wake him up to tell him to turn over, as he is snoring, he goes to sleep on the sofa, but then goes on about how tired he is all of the next day. If I try and go downstairs to sleep on the sofa then he immediately wakes up and says that he will go, but he starts muttering under his breath that he never gets any sleep etc.
So last night, when he said that he was going to bed at 10.30pm I said that I was staying up for a bit. I could hear him snoring from downstairs so at 11.30 I went and got in my son's bed (who is away at the moment). I had fallen asleep and was woken up by a really loud bang. My P then put the landing light on and then I heard him go downstairs and he was banging around. He then came back upstairs, opened my son's bedroom door and asked me why I hadn't come to bed with him. I told him that he was snoring (again) and that I wanted some sleep. It was half past one by this time.
Then he got up a 6am and started banging around again, the TV was on and he turned it right up. When he left he banged the door.
I am getting really, really fed up with having little or no sleep when I have to get up for work the next day. He's quite happy for me to lie there listening to him snoring but he will not volunteer to go downstairs, even when he wakes himself up.
He is loud anyway, during the day. If he sneezes he has to exaggerate it, he bangs doors, shouts to the cat to get her attention (particularly when I am watching something on the TV), shouts during normal conversation. He knows that I am not a morning person and he insists on endless chatter before he goes to work. I can't explain it but it feels deliberate, as if he is doing it on purpose.
For background we rent together and we have six months left before the tenancy is up. I am seriously contemplating leaving because I can't manage on so little sleep. This happens more or less every night.
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iamthesonandtheheir · 10/08/2015 13:04
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