I recently instigated ending my marriage for various reasons. We had couples counselling, but both went into individual (with completely different counsellors) after a few sessions at the advice of the lovely counsellor.
One of the issues I have is that I feel responsible for everyone else and I have neglected and lost myself. I feel very wobbly stepping out on my own with DD and horrendously guilty for breaking up the family. However, something had to give as I was so depressed and anxious I felt my life was a prison sentence.
I had originally offered to move into rented with DD when we split, but H insisted on me staying in our family home. He came to see DD today (I absolutely want to support their relationship) and just walked in like he still lives here. Made various critical comments about my 'upkeep of the house' and then settled down on the sofa. I'm feeling really anxious because I don't want to upset DD, but I feel like I'm being trapped in this house and he will keep doing as he likes/commenting.
I know I need to set boundaries, and I will talk to my counsellor this week, but I'm wobbling today and just need a little support about how to handle it?
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Ismeyes1 · 09/08/2015 15:57
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