Hi all, am finding it difficult to sleep tonight because of DH.
I went out for the day and returned home to find DH had a friend over and was having a BBQ. I sat down and joined in instantly chatting to DH and his friend.
As the hours wore on, I could see DH was getting irritated and started tidying up and withdrawing from the BBQ. He looked annoyed and when I asked him what was wrong he would say nothing. But say nothing as though I was lazy and did literally nothing. I hadn't done nothing as I cleared away all the food and plates of the BBQ, even though I had had nothing to eat. He kept storming off as if he was in a mood and wouldn't engage with me.
His guest eventually got the message and went home, and DH pretty much ignored me, and sat in another room.
When I went to discuss what was wrong with him again, he replied nothing and refused to meet eye contact. I said there clearly is somethjng, please tell me. He said he was fed up with people turning up unexpectedly and out staying their welcome. I asked him why I felt like if was my fault, and he said he didn't know. I said because you are making me feel it is with your sulkiness.
I am feeling chilled and disturbed by this and can't sleep. I haven't done anything wrong apart from try and have a nice Saturday in the sunshine.
Not sure what I am asking. Just want feedback I guess.
Thanks
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RuffDiamond · 08/08/2015 22:54
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