Hi all
Have had great advice on here before & just after a bit of reassurance I think...
On Wednesday I broke up with my boyfriend. We were together 6 months & until month 4, everything was peachy. I wrote a thread around then as he started to be protective over his phone & seemed quite preoccupied.
In six months, I hardly met any of his friends (including one in particular who he shad a brief relationship with 6 months before we got together) and always felt a bit separate from the rest of his life. We were both busy (work, single parents etc) but I always felt he wasn't quite ready or willing to 'be' with me. 3 weeks ago I started to feel overly insecure & like I was 'disappearing' a bit. I told him I wanted some space & we didn't see each other for a week. In that time I felt great. Clear headed, proactive & generally awesome. We got back together & the insecure feelings popped up again. And the knot in my stomach returned.. But since I ended it I'm having huge regrets & feeling like crap.
I'm having counselling for my trust issues (ongoing in most relationships with men) & hope I haven't just made a huge mistake based on my own insecurities
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daisyJ123 · 07/08/2015 10:04
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