I was single during pregnancy and happened to meet someone a month or so before my baby was born. Biological father has never met my (now) toddler . I still think of him every day.
Anyway, new relationship, 18 months on. It has been turbulent at times but my question is: would you expect more than this?
We live separately. He owns. I rent. That works. He comes over once or twice during the week for an hour after my toddler has gone to bed. We spend afternoons together at weekends sometimes so he sees toddler then. He doesn't sleep over because I co-sleep with toddler. Spending time with my small person is my #1 priority as I work full time so I admit that I expect him to work around us to some extent. He has looked after toddler for a few hours once, and has changed 2 nappies (in total). I am prepared to be told I need to get a grip but I had dreamed of more than this.
:(
Tonight I tried to talk to him about wanting more and he stormed off.
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18 months into a relationship and we're still not 'serious'.
DesertIslander · 06/08/2015 21:37
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