he said he is going to leave his girlfriend for me at the end of the month. they have an event To go to that is quite important for her and he said he cannot do it before. however, recent days she has posted photos online with captions of love hearts and they have had very normal "couple-like" convos online that I have seen.
I have never mentioned him leaving, it is always him who has mentioned it and I feel lost and confused. I want to ask him but I don't know what to say which sounds rather silly.
I just want to know if he is going to plain and simple or we are both wasting each other's time. he was adamant that it will happen and be sorted soon.
2 options - 1) no further contact until have proof it's all over ( not sure how you'd obtain that), 2) Give up as a bad idea and work out why you would entertain this notion in the first place when most wouldn't for many good reasons.
why can't you find someone who is single and available? do you think that once you have him everything will fall into place and you'll have a happy ever after. this is a train wreck in the making. get out of it and look at working on your self-esteem.
Why are you 'with' someone who has a girlfriend in the first place? Don't waste your time. What makes you any different to his current girlfriend that he is cheating on?... He won't hesitate to do it to you you.
I would second the recommendation to read Baggage Reclaim.
You are wasting your time with this low life.
You need to dump him before he further shits on you from a great height. I feel sorry for his girlfriend who likely has no idea that her man is seeing someone else. You are really the other woman here; is that how you envisaged yourself within any relationship?.