She doesn't speak to any of her nieces of nephews on her side (there are many of them)
She doesn't speak to her brother
She sulks if her other brother (who had polio and can hardly walk) and her other sister (who is aggro phobic) don't come to visit her but she won't go and see them.
I am nothing to her as last summer I didn't visit her as she started trying to discuss me and she problems when I didn't think it was any of her business. Because of this and the fact I decided to go back to college she doesn't speak to me, bad mouthed me and refuses to take care of our school if it's something to help me..............it's getting me down. DH thinks it's my fault as I didn't pop over etc and that our marriage issues are her business. I don't know what to do - she takes digs at me to ds to the point he doesn't want to go over there anymore - he's very protective of me.
What do I do! Do I swallow everything and grovel and say she's right all along and I'm terrible or do I just act like she doesn't exist to me and put up with the fact DH thinks I'm wrong and they all go over there and act like happy families?
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My MIL is just odd - or is it just me?
Blushingm · 03/08/2015 14:13
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