Hi
I have ended a relationship because the guy in question, basically was no good for me. Refused to commit and had various other women on the go.
It was tough. I ended it and gave him a heap of home truths. But I was incredibly nasty with it because I was angry. But strangle feel guilty, even though I know I was right!!
We were not married, didn't live together and no kids.
I've made a conscience decision to de activate my fb account as I developed a habbit of fb stalking these other women. Plus, I would get upset seeing his fb page. The aim - that if I don't see anything, I will get over it quicker.
Thing is, I'm sad, miss him and am curious what he is up to, curious if he is up to anything still with these women. I am literally sitting on my hands, trying to stop myself reactivating my account. It will do me no good. But it's so hard!
Also, I have had to stop myself driving past his work or going places I know I could potentially see him. Again, it's like I'm punishing myself as I feel I want to see him. But know I shouldn't :-(
I was seeing him for 2 years. How long will these urges last. I'm trying to keep myself busy but can't seem to distract my thoughts. He is so wrong for me. I am an attractive young woman and easy going. I'm never short of male attention, yet I'm not interested in anyone else. I can't even force myself to try.
Struggling to be alone. I have my kids most days And I'm upbeat with them. But the void of my ex is so hard to fill.
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roseyrain · 31/07/2015 21:44
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