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Soul-searching & reaching the wrong answers in marriage. Should I leave?

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somethingchanged40 Thu 30-Jul-15 10:01:57

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Jan45 Thu 30-Jul-15 10:22:20

Even marriage are not built to last forever, they all have a different shelf life, yours sounds long dead.

I think you'd be much happier on your own, to have things your way and to work out what you want from the rest of your life, it doesn't sound like he factors at all.

Millie3030 Thu 30-Jul-15 10:32:13

It sounds like you have the made the decision, but are just worrying about the family unit being seperate. But a family unit that is together and miserable isn't ideal. If you and he would be happier apart, maybe that is for the best.

somethingchanged40 Thu 30-Jul-15 13:12:17

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Vernazza Thu 30-Jul-15 13:58:42

OP you sound torn and it sounds like you have been for a long time. I was in the same position and this book REALLY helped me sort through it and get out of limbo. It's called Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay by Mira Kirshenbaum. You can get it on Amazon. I highly recommend it. All the best to you.

somethingchanged40 Thu 30-Jul-15 15:36:18

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Vernazza Thu 30-Jul-15 16:33:26

OP I will send you a private message xx

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