Name Changed.
Don't know what I'm hoping for from this really. Maybe some hand holding and moral support as I have no one in RL.
DH and I have been having a rocky time as of late. We both made it clear we didn't think it was working. He said a lot of vile things to me in an argument a few weeks back and has been sleeping in the spare room ever since.
I know we need to talk about our situation and I suppose deep down I thought that if we could we might be able to work something out. Stupidly every time I try to talk to him I end up in a blubbering mess, can't get my words out and can't express my feelings. He's not the most open person so he doesn't take well to these outward displays of emotion.
In my wisdom, I thought it might be a good idea to write down how I felt, what my reservations about the relationship are and what I felt could be done to change it. I gave the note to DH to read at his leisure. (Yes, I know, all very childish, but it seemed the only way I could coherently express myself).
DH confirmed this evening he had read it and mentioned 'going our separate ways'. I asked if there was anything he wanted to add/discuss. He said 'no I'm good thanks,' with a big grin, and walked away.
Am I right to assume from these comments that the changes I wanted are not going to happen? I now have to accept that this is the end of our marriage, don't I?
Although I know it's probably for the best long term I'm absolutely heartbroken. Please tell me it will get easier.
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GoneAndDoneIt · 26/07/2015 20:41
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