I have posted before and with such lovely response thought id post again... maybe i need therapy, not sure. I'm trying to keep it short...I have found life difficult lately as a single mum with no family support (selfish parents) ex has stopped contact and I'm mentally exhausted. I am desperate for a 'normal' family (grandchildren sleep overs, sunday lunches) but 20 years later and lots of broken promises, I'm pretty much broken too. Mental abuse and being put 2nd has made me stronger though and I will never ever be that parent. My girls come first.
Almost nearly losing our home recently it has been an emotional roller coaster. I met a guy in between. Perfect but I wasn't sexually attracted to him but thought it was me as no one has ever been kind or put me first anyway 18 months later on and off (no sex) I still couldn't see him as a boyfriend. This was 3 months ago....in that time I have dated not so nice guys, my ex has cut contact with our daughter's, lost my job and almost my house, my mum is dating again so we take the back seat, I don't have any other family and have basically begged my mum to help me as I'm feeling so emotionally broken but she just can't do it! Anyway I mailed this guy 2 days ago asking him back (I am so lonely I have no one) he has met someone else and isn't interested and I completely understand but he is the only person in the whole world that is nice to me well was!
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can someone cheer me up please?
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ggg123 · 26/07/2015 18:01
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