17 year relationship, 7 yr old dd. This evening the dog ate some mince he'd left on the table for dinner. He effed and cunted, blamed me because somehow I should have been psychic and been following dog round the house. Then he kicked the dog making him yelp and shake. He now says it was not deliberate, dog was in his way, but it was. All of this in front of dd. Deal breaker. All through the relationship there has been a certain amount of verbal abuse usually where drink was involved. He doesn't drink much any more but now he's mean sober. Nothing physical ever towards me but it's like something annoys him and he just wants to punish everyone else about it and to hang with the consequences. He is self righteously justified. He will apologise tomorrow probably but I just can't be doing with it any more.
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