I don't really know why I'm writing, but there's nobody that I can talk to in RL and I'm so unhappy.
I'm in a totally dead relationship with the father of my DC's (6 and 2). He's not a dreadful person so it's not as simple as LTB. He has had issues with depression and can be very rude and controlling with me, but he's a wondeful father and our children love him v much. However I'm really miserable. We have no intimacy either physicaly or emotionally. I work full time and pay all the bills etc and do all the cooking and sorting out of childcare. He doesn't really work and I think that contributes to the problem, but he never says anything nice to me or seems to appreciate what I do. Sadly this has just led to a massive build up of resentment.
My problem is that he's from America and has told me that if we split up then he will move back there. Therefore if I leave him (which is what I would really like to do) then I take my kids father away from them. How can I do that? I feel like I can't and they'd resent me forever. So I'm stuck. Any advice or words of wisdom?
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Sad situation but no solution
unhappy1979 · 24/07/2015 13:13
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