Name change due to sensitive subject. I'm asking on behalf of a friend who is currently really worried and very upset indeed. I have her permission to post but have edited her bumf so it can't be too identifiable as this area can be googled.
The quick synopsis without going into to much detail is this:
Husband of 20+ years leaves to live with someone attached to his work. Leaves wife with 17 yr old daughter in house jointly owned. He looses job because of new relationship. He blames wife. He tells her she is overhoused but he will let her live there if she pays whole mortgage. He wants to force her to sell when daughter finishes first part of diploma. Wife asks for contribution to mortgage so he tells her he is technically allowed to enjoy his own property and if wife wants half mortgage then he will give notice that he and his new girlfriend may wish to take up residence.
Is there anything she can do to stop this? it would be her worst nightmare to have to deal with this as with all relationships, they are quite firmly in the honeymoon period. Please note if I'm asked to give any more details, I will have to check with my friend before I post.
If you can offer any experience or advice, please help as my friend is in bits.
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AFriendInNeedIndeed · 22/07/2015 21:58
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