Feel like totally drawing away from my mum. I wanted to keep my pregnancy quiet because I've had problems with miscarriages... She went to a party and announced to everyone who would listen that I was pregnant. My niece overhead and totally took away me being able to tell her. She did the same when I got in contact with my dad, I didn't want to tell my brother because I just wanted to do it on my own with no influences but she told him anyway.
Then we went out with my daughter for something to eat and I watched them as I was ordering the food. She never spoke to my daughter once or tried to engage her in conversation.
Is it me or does she just lack a maternal instinct?
Today after 3 months of HG I finally have the strength to get my hair done. Which I haven't in about 5 months. You can imagine how awful it looks. She agreed to look after kids but has now changed her mind because she wants to go and play a board game with friends. I look like utter crap.. Surely any normal mother would see
This and say don't worry love you go and treat yourself. I'm so upset right now
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LoveLetters · 21/07/2015 15:42
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