i threw my husband out of the house nearly two months ago for a mock suicide attempt when I said i wamted to leave. he had done this before so calledambulance and left. Got back into house as couldnt live out of a bag eith daughter. since then he has left and comes to visit our child. That has now broken down and seems to just scream at me when he doesnt get his way. i really think he is either desperate or there is something really wrong.
i agrred to let things cool down and we started a separation agreement - but everytime we try and talk about the reality of that he just goes silent on me. This now includes our child. i feel he's trying to provoke me somehow but I am really fed up, and think he'sjust trying to string me along until i say come back.
my child is upset and doesnt understand. he wont contact her now. i have tried to be reasonable i think but he just wants it all back without any change and doesnt seem to have done much except work.
Has anyone been through similar? i think he had been diagnosed with anxiety and depression but not sure it could be more serious than that - he seems to be on meds, sometimes talking about suicidal thoughts -then hes off them again. what rights do i have to know about his condition if he wont tell me?
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Twofatladies88 · 20/07/2015 10:30
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