He's always been a Mardy arse, stubborn, argumentative, ultra sensitive etc etc but these past few days it's gone beyond ridiculous and it's making me paranoid.
It all started 3 days ago when he went mental all of a sudden saying that me and my ex have been "scamming" him out of money this ex btw I split with 12 years ago and we now have minimal contact. I asked how the hell he'd come up with that and basically he reckons my ex is earning more than he mskes out so should be paying more maintanance and because I've "let him get away with it" I'm also scamming him. He went on to explain that as the ex isn't paying enough (allegedly) HE has been left paying for "someone else's kids". That is fucking awful for a start but he continued ripping into me about it. The next day is literally just walked through the door from work and he called me over to a) look at his maintanance calculations for my ex and b) to tell me that my calculations were s load of shit and as a result he'd been paying his ex less than he should be. He implied I'd done this on purpose. I recalculated it in front of him ... Turned out HE had got it wrong, my calculations were right. He carried on slagging me off, saying he was a mug etc etc and basically telling me how he resents paying for my kids when their own father doesn't (he does btw). This all blew up out of nowhere.
Now, today I walk through the door and he seems in a better mood. Until of course, he points out that last night he'd watched me pick some clothes up from the floor before going to bed he said he was chuffed to see me do that as normally it would be left for him (untrue) ... Ok ... So this is a good thing, right? Well no because somehow he managed to turn THIS 'good thing' into a lecture about how I don't do enough housework. I said "so you're wanting to lecture me on something I DID do right yesterday??". He carried on saying "if I'm too high maintanance for you, just say".
Does he WANT me to split up with him?? That's how it's starting to feel. He's just constantly kicking off and ripping into me about stuff. He's incapable of holding a normal conversation - everything has to be lectures/aggressive/swearing etc etc
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3 days of arguining - he's going on at me CONSTANTLY
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GreenSheet · 15/07/2015 18:26
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