Help!!!!! Well it goes like this... I met this guy about 5 years ago, we dated for a while and for the time we did it was like we both liked each other as much of the other. Was totally loved up and it was all going amazing making plans for the future. Then it all went a bit pear shape... Things were not going smoothly with my ex (who I had separated from coz he had a affair but on the other hand didn't want to see me move on yet he was with his new girlfriend) and then this guys ex got back in touch with him and started trying to pick up where she left off ( she cheated on him and was a real bitch to him but she, at the time, always had his heart) so it was enevatable that she would get him back.. So he went with her, I moved on, then he saw the real person she was (a lying cheating using nasty person) and decided he's better without her. Then he starts showing up at my work but I was with some one... ANYWAY, coz I was with someone he try's to move on, finds a girlfriend and this is where we are today...
So we chat by text now and again. We always get on so well. Same sence of humour, always there for each other when we have problems. Problem is I just want to be with him. We were made for each other in my eyes. Yes he has a girlfriend just now so I would never EVER do anything while he is with her.
During our last convo he has said that he doesn't see his relationship going any further the spark has gone and he doesn't have a connection with her sexual or emotionally. He is 36 so wants kids but he don't want them with her. I am 35 and so would want another one sooner rather than later.
The problem is that I just want to tell him. I like him so much and have done for the whole time I've known him!!! I'd have his children and I've had many relationships after the father of my oldest child and have never thought that with anyone else. we just click. He is hard working, caring and also is a great role model. Every time we talk about each other's relationships we both want the same things that are missing at the moment with the other person!!
So do I tell him?? Do I just leave it?
My heart is actually hurting coz I just feel it's him I want. I'm acting like a child I know!!!! But I feel so strongly.
Advice needed please ????
Thank you guys x
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Brightstar86 · 14/07/2015 18:03
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