Dp had emotional affair with work colleague 4 years ago. They kissed and didn't get much further than groping but their messages to eacother were so explicit. He continued to lie after I found out about having contact with her and I found out they would go out to lunch as friends. Started talking inappropriately again 2 yrs ago when I caught it before it went further. I've become a really angry person and I've just released today I'm angry at myself for putting up with it and staying. I'm not even angry with him anymore, just me. I know her instagram page and I can't stop checking it. She has a boyfriend now and they look so happy and all I can think of is how can I mess it up for her. She knows I existed and she did it anyway. I can't stop looking at her page, it's easy to say just stop looking at it but I cant. She has no idea how much hurt she has caused and I'm contemplation leaving as we speak but I'm pregnant with
Our third (Pls I don't need people saying why did you get pregnant again, it wasn't an easy decision to come too) I feel like I'm going a bit mental and when I bring it up to DP he says for God sake that was years ago like I should have just gotten over it, but I can't get over it. Will I ever get over it?
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LoveLetters · 12/07/2015 12:53
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