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Undertanding your woman

(36 Posts)
Bombastichat Fri 10-Jul-15 22:46:58

If you want to use this thread for your own stuff after mine then feel free, hope i've put this in the correct section.

Before I start i'd like to say I'm not worried, just interested to find out what is going on up there.

We are both in our early 40s, been going out together a few weeks and everything is ok. Anyhow, i'm round at hers for the evening and will be stopping over (nothing new). Her dog has been very ill and she's just got it back from the vets, it's not looking good at all, it's been treated for all sorts and we're wondering if it will make it or get better. She's obviously upset and has tears in her eyes sometimes as she's looking after him.
So it's bedtime and i'm thinking that there won't be any sex tonight as the dog is very unwell downstairs, heck it may even die tonight. This is of course fine by me, kind of out of respect for the dog and her all I want is to cuddle her and go to sleep.

She wants sex though and initiates it, so we do and it's fine. It just surprised me a bit and seems I misread the situation and really, I just wondered why she wanted sex while he was so ill downstairs. I've seen it on TV/films where people have sex in odd situations, i'm guessing she just wanted the ultimate version of closeness and..... what?
Maybe I should ask her?

VixxFace Fri 10-Jul-15 22:50:44

Ask her what?

She wanted sex even though her dog was sick. And?

Whiskwarrior Fri 10-Jul-15 22:53:32

Alrighty then...

molyholy Fri 10-Jul-15 22:53:48

What an odd post

TigerWhoCameForGin Fri 10-Jul-15 22:54:11

< marks place >

DisgraceToTheYChromosome Fri 10-Jul-15 22:54:41

I find it much safer to remain in a state of cheerful bemusement where people are concerned. You're not from Hull, by any chance?

TheRollingCrone Fri 10-Jul-15 22:56:16

Doggy style?

flatbellyfella Fri 10-Jul-15 22:57:45

Probably because it's Friday night....

SomethingOnce Fri 10-Jul-15 22:57:52

Friday night, sick dog sex, you say?

Hmmm hmm

TheRollingCrone Fri 10-Jul-15 22:58:46

Sorry OP, maybe she just wanted comfort. Sex is love, with someone you love.

molyholy Fri 10-Jul-15 22:59:34

Do you like it wuff?

UncertainSmile Fri 10-Jul-15 22:59:58

Are you pissed?

IrenetheQuaint Fri 10-Jul-15 23:00:15

Right, so you had sex and then you got up immediately to post this thread on the Internet...?

NashvilleQueen Fri 10-Jul-15 23:00:26

Sick dog sex! V funny.

UncertainSmile Fri 10-Jul-15 23:00:30

grin MolyHoly

PresidentTwonk Fri 10-Jul-15 23:01:17

Tell her you'd like to 'understand your woman' and I'm sure your problem of her wanting sex will fast disappear.

DextersMistress Fri 10-Jul-15 23:03:45

If she's being referred to as your woman after a few weeks I'd say she has bigger problems than a sick dog.

Ledkr Fri 10-Jul-15 23:12:17

Maybe she fancied dogging!

GingerCuddleMonster Fri 10-Jul-15 23:18:50

I've got the mental image of the dog sat in his basket think "fucking hell, I'm literally dying here and she's too busy fucking that thing upstairs, what does a dog need to do for some peace and quiet"

GiddyOnZackHunt Fri 10-Jul-15 23:20:47

'your woman' OK then...

ChristinaTweet Fri 10-Jul-15 23:56:45

give that doggy a bone!

PushingThru Sat 11-Jul-15 00:04:19

I love that the opening gambit is 'if you want to use this thread for your own stuff after mine, go ahead'.


My girlfriend's rabbit has diabetes now she won't go down on me.

molyholy Sat 11-Jul-15 00:08:02

Or my girlfriends rabbit has diabetes. She has just gone down on me. WHILE HER RABBIT WAS SICK!!! Is she normal?

BoreOfWhabylon Sat 11-Jul-15 00:10:56

molyholy Sat 11-Jul-15 00:13:07

I jest OP. I feel for you really. You paw paw man grin

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