I have been with my DP for almost 8 years now we have one DC and another on the way.
I am so confused + frustrated. My relationship with DP has had its ups and downs. He has always been controlling and would question everything when I went out. We did seperate for a short period due to this previously but he promised he had changed, and begged us to try again. So I wanted too.
I do love him and really want to keep my family togther but feel he makes this difficult. When the relationship was going great we discussed having our second DC and we were so excited for this. Since I told him I was pregnant it's like someone turned a switch and he has completely changed. He barley shows me any affection unless he wants sex. Otherwise he is very cold no cuddles even when watching TVa or kiss goodbye ect. He won't help around the house and if I ask it turns into an argument. For example the other day I cleared out all my old clothes and asked him to take bags of clothes to the bin that were very heavy but he ran off to work so I had to do it. He doesn't show any interest in the fact I'm pregnant at all and I'm carrying his child.
Money has been a big issue recently too and it's causing differences between us, I'm working a lot of over time to help us out and I feel he doesn't appreciate this. I already work full time in a demanding job.
Sorry for the big rant I find it hard to tell friends and family as I don't want it to change there opinions of him.
I am unsure whether I carry on hoping things improve. I just don't understand why he has changed he said he really wanted another DC. Now I just feel stupid.
Thanks for listening
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Happybelle21 · 09/07/2015 00:21
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