New man - Putting fingers in your mouth when things get a heated in the bedroom...

[makingyourlove]

Is this normal? Im not opposed to it, but just wondered if it was a common thing - I've not experienced it before.

We were cuddling and kissing and he had his arms around me, and then as I was touching him (sorry if TMI), he put his fingers in my mouth. (I didn't want him to go down below and he knew this, so perhaps that was why?).

Just curious!

[NaiceNickname]

My guess is that he watches a lot of porn. It's a very porny thing to do, "ere, suck my fingers like it's my dick" bork.

If you don't like it then just bite the fuckers off move your mouth whenever he attempts to do and tell him to stop.

[makingyourlove]

Do you think??! We had the porn discussion and he said he watched it once in a blue moon!!!

Hmm. Feel a bit annoyed now!

I don't mind it, though...

[NaiceNickname]

It's very rare in my experience to find a bloke who freely admits to watching porn often, especially to new partners. Of course I could be way off and he just has a finger sucking fetish either way, only do what you enjoy too.

[wafflyversatile]

How do you mean by putting them in your mouth?

It's not abnormal for people to lick each other's fingers as there are a lot of nerve endings in them. Or so you can 'taste yourself'.

Some weird using fingers in a mouth stretchy action seems to be a thing in porn. Also ATM - ass to mouth so you are tasting your own rectum - lovely.

[oabiti]

Maybe it's not down to porn. Maybe he just likes to put his fingers in to emulate a blow job (as someone above mentioned).

If you like it, just enjoy it. If you don't, tell him to stop.

[PityPartay]

Giving the benefit of the doubt, I don't watch porn at all but have seen this loads, it's also part of a ridiculous number of mainstream films ime, get so fed up of the number of films with a sex scene where his fingers end up shoved in her mouth and she acts like it's Christmas. Possible he's seen that sort of thing and assumed you'd really like it?

[handfulofcottonbuds]

Some weird using fingers in a mouth stretchy action seems to be a thing in porn. Also ATM - ass to mouth so you are tasting your own rectum - lovely

waffly I must have missed the bit where the OP says this

[wafflyversatile]

She doesn't. I was expanding on different fingers in mouth scenarios as the OP wasn't explicit.

Are you only allowed to mention things already brought up on the OP?

[handfulofcottonbuds]

Of course not Waffly

[YonicScrewdriver]

I don't think this is particularly porny - but if you don't like it that's fine!

[VerityWaves]

I think some guys just find this erotic

[JohnFarleysRuskin]

I think it's erotic

Chew on them if you're unimpressed!

[Sickoffrozen]

I'm not a fan of this to he honest or toe sucking.

[yougotafriend]

I quite like to suck a finger & to have mine sucked. Anyone watch ally mcbeal back in the day? The finger suck played a big part!

[handfulofcottonbuds]

I agree JFR but not toe sucking!

[JohnFarleysRuskin]

It's not a porn thing particularly. I've been doing it since I was 16- (in the pre-porn era)
As for toe sucking- eww- it just reminds me of the duchess of York (sorry duchess of York)

[Joysmum]

If you don't like it then just say, don't see what the big deal with or why 'normal' should be a beenchmark as you don't have to justify yourself to anyone.

[Enchufla]

Its just normal really. If my partner puts his finer in my mouth i might suck or i might bite it depends how i'm feeling. I try not to do it too often as i dont like giving oral and it'll put him in mind of that and i dont want to disappoint him!

[YonicScrewdriver]

Friend, but so did wattle and knee pit - I'm not sure ally Mcbeal is a good guide!

[bodenbiscuit]

I think it's normal - I've done it to people and I don't watch porn.

[HellonHeels]

Normal not porny IMO. If you don't like it, tell him.

[missqwerty]

I like doing this! But I'm strange and also like my chin been sucked!

[SlightlyJaded]

Pretty vanilla IMO and I wouldn't read anything into it. BUT key thing is how you feel about it.

[GoldfishCrackers]

Not uncommon and not porny IMO (I remember it from waaay back). But if you don't like it, don't do it.