My DP and I are going to get married, we have been together 8 years. I have been divorced 7. Exh hates DP and will not talk to him. He was not OM but ex insists he was. My kids like DP and have lived with him as their stepfather for 6 years.
We expect problems with ex when we tell him that we are getting/have got married.
I am torn between calling him and letting him know well in advance or just letting him find out for himself when we get back. We are going off on our own abroad to get married.
What experience do others have, what have you done?
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Getting Married - how to tell EXH
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BlueBlueSea · 08/07/2015 15:52
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