I know the title sounds shallow, but please bear with me! I'm equally interested in both male and female opinions on this.
I've recently registered for online dating having been single for several years. Over the last few years, I have worked hard, been promoted and have built some savings. Having had my fingers burnt in a previous relationship, I've always felt that anything I earn now is mine and my daughter's.
I'm very much of the view that I would never be with a man purely because he had money. However, I also feel that I shouldn't have to completely subsidise him and that we should each pay our way. To be clear - if he were better off, I would still insist on paying my share for nights out, holidays etc.
So, does income matter when getting to know someone? I'm at a stage in my life where my DD will soon be leaving home and I'd love to meet someone I could share experiences and travel with. However, if one persons old afford stuff the other couldn't is that likely to become a problem?
Sorry, I know this sounds materialistic, and I'm really not like that it. It's just that for many years I was married to a complete spendthrift and it caused me huge amounts of worry and stress.
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Online dating - do you look at income?
Ladylouanne · 06/07/2015 19:13
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