So me and my boyfriend have been together just over 6 months we had the talk about becoming official about 2 months after we met we are both 27. We have been on holiday together we have met eachothers friends etc. Then a few weeks ago hesuddenly he turned around and told me that he doesnt want to be with me anymore as he doesnt want a relationship he prefers to be single. We met up to talk a few days later and he decided he wanted to give things a go. We went away together the next weekend and had a lovely time. Then he ignored me for a few days and again told me he cares about me so much and what a lovely person i am but he prefers being on his own. I left him to it and ignored him but finally gave in yesterday to go and meet him. He apologised and told me he doesnt want to lose me and i mean a lot to him but he just wants to see each other and spend time together and see what happens. We didnt sleep together and dont everytime we see eachother so i know he isnt just after that and he doesnt want either of us to see other people. I asked him if he sees me in his future and his response was he doesnt think much about his future. I told him that not rught now and not nescacarily with him i do want to get married have kids etc and if he is never going to want that (not nessacarily with me but with anyone) then there is no point in us trying. He assured me that he does want that in the future and that i am not wasting my time with him. Sorry for the essay but any adbice will be greatly appreciated!!
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